criticism

The Criticism Challenge

If you have ever had an employee need harsh criticism, you know just how difficult a task it can be. Most people don’t like to dish out criticism, which is...

Good Criticism vs Bad Criticism

I finished a speech last month and hustled to the back of the room to autograph books.  It is my mini-rockstar moment and I love it thoroughly.  Until I get...

You May Be Unintentionally Turning a Great Employee Into A Terrible One In 6 Ways

When we have trouble with an employee, it’s easy to place the blame on them.  If they’d only followed the procedure, or if they’d only understood the clients’ needs, or...

Criticism & Fear

Fear only happens when the words of criticism match your own beliefs.  What do you choose to believe?

Criticism & Authenticity

If you are your authentic-self and people criticize you, it is likely that they are inauthentic inside. It is likely that they are being something they are not. When an...

Criticism & Authenticity

If you are your authentic-self and people criticize you, it is likely that they are inauthentic inside. It is likely that they are being something they are not. When an inauthentic person experiences an authentic person, it is threatening. It is scary. And the defense is criticism.

Authentic people are famous for their constant encouragement. Authentic people revel in authenticity. They love being authentic. The love seeing others be authentic. They support everyone regardless of where those people are in discovering their own authentic selves.

If you are being your authentic-self, criticism will rain down on you. That’s ok – you’re helping others find their own authentic-self, as painful as that may be for them. Keep offering encouragement. Keep being who you are.

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