Entrepreneur Stories

The Lonely Entrepreneur & What’s Missing

The hardest parts of running your business aren't the challenges. It’s feeling as though you're the only one having a hard time. Facts: I've built wealth and lost it. I've...

One Accountable, Many Responsible

If there is one thing that is absolutely guaranteed when working with a team, if multiple people are made accountable to an outcome it is unlikely to happen. It is...

Weirdos Wanted!

Next time someone calls you weird, revel in it. It’s the weirdos who are different. It’s the weirdos who challenge the norm.  It is the weirdos who realize the foundation...

Don’t Call Profit The Bottom Line

Let's say for a second that you have decided to exercise more. There's more than a tire around your waist, after all, you have tires everywhere. To fix your fitness,...

11 Leadership Styles To Avoid And How To Fix Them

Leadership is one of those things that every successful entrepreneur must have in order to succeed, but identifying what good leadership entails may not always be clear-cut for everyone. So...

The Downward Spiral – Bigger Plates = Bigger Cabinets

I was having coffee with Brittany Lanzone, Founder of kitchen design company Rae Design, when she shared a fascinating fact with me. The kitchen cabinet standard recently increased from the...

How to Get A Difficult Client To Schedule Meeting

I received this note, in the mail last year. It did its job - she got the meeting with me immediately. While I was always willing to meet with her,...

The Biggest Determinant Of Success

The biggest determinant of success is the level of commitment you have to being successful.

Great Business Lessons From 8 Military Leaders

The very first business book I ever read wasn’t written by Dale Carnegie or Donald Trump. It was Sun Tzu’s The Art of War. Odd choice? Not really, if you...

What Do You Want?

Of all the questions I ask, the one that gets the most lies in response is “What do you want?” I found that very few entrepreneurs really know. The most...

What Do You Want?

Of all the questions I ask, the one that gets the most lies in response is “What do you want?” I found that very few entrepreneurs really know. The most common responses (lies) are more money, more freedom, more something.

When I hear the first answer an entrepreneur gives me to this question, I then ask them “Why do you want that?” Some look puzzled, others give an answer that digs a little deeper, and yet others say “Because I just do” keeping us trapped in a circuitous discussion.

Regardless of what the answer is, I again ask why. And with the subsequent answer I ask why again. In fact, often I will peel back the onion until no onion is left. Requiring the entrepreneur to rethink all their motivates, dreams and ambitions.

Your business mastery depends on yourself mastery. It is important that you understand why you do what you do. You need to understand yourself at a core emotional level.

I do know this: At the end of the day, you will only excel at what you do if what you do brings you happiness. And you will only know if you are being successful if you have defined what that happiness is.

So, keep asking yourself “What do you want?” and “Why do you want it?” Even if you “know” the answer today, you might not tomorrow. Just keep asking. Daily. As the answers prevent themselves you will have provided your business with the greatest guidance it could ever ask for.
If you know what make your soul come alive, you too will know what will l make your business thrive.